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Photo Credit: Anastasia Dulgier
In our entire life, we meet and interact with multiple people, all of which are unique in their ways. They can be our parents, spouses, siblings, friends, relatives or colleagues and sometimes, there is often a need to understand them for effective communication. Unfortunately, we don’t have the power to read their minds and they don’t come with an instruction manual either.
An introvert person like me struggled a lot to know people especially because I always assumed that everyone might think the same as me or just the opposite. Digging deep into the mystery always fascinated me and there began my interest in reading about Zodiac signs.
The first sun sign I googled was obviously mine and I was fascinated by the results. I was quite the same person as it was there on the web pages. A workaholic, focused at work, obsessed and passionate for something; for me it was cricket, loyal, faithful, jealous and possessive in love, stubborn whom no one can influence or change other than themselves, secretive who never shares their feelings with people but are also quite good in keeping everyone secrets. Did you manage to guess the Zodiac? Yes, A SCORPIO who hold grudges till the end of their lives and doesn’t trust people easily.
The more I started reading about it, the more it became interesting to read about people who were around me. I realized that two of my school and college best friends are LIBRA and they both are so similar. Being an introvert, I managed to become friends with them because they were quite friendly and socially active people. They both are very balanced and diplomatic individual who got married to their parent’s choices. If I have to describe them in one word, I would say Happy-Go-Lucky. They are fine with everything what life offers to them and that makes them easy going.
Moving to a water sign closer to me, CANCERS are extremely adaptable and genuine. I have seen my father around me since childhood and he is very caring, emotional and polite by nature. Though he is not good in expressing his emotions but we understand that quite easily. He is also an introvert and shy but a true friend who is always ready to help everyone in need. I also have few colleagues belonging to the same sun sign and they always appear to be very quiet and humble. Such a personality with whom you can never be intimated with and can reach out whenever you have any work-related doubts because they will never refuse or ignore you.
I never realized until this year that I have so many GEMINI friends in my life. It was strange when I figured out that I have two very good friends and two good colleagues who have the sun sign Gemini. They are the people whom I reach out when I have to talk; be on the call with my friends or at the food court with my colleagues. Expressive, talkative, social and communicative, they can become friends quite easily. They are carefree and easy going in nature who can adjust easily. However, I have seen the other sides of my friends too. Sometimes they are moody and throw temper tantrums and doesn’t pick their calls. Although they always stand up for what they believe is correct and perfect in their work.
There is one sun sign that is in many ways opposite of a Scorpio and that is the personality of a LEO. I probably understand LEO the most as I have lived with my brother the most of my life. They are extremely sharp, smart and confident people. While I struggle to communicate being an introvert who prefers to text my friends; my brother prefers talking and like calling his friends. He is good in making funny jokes and keeping our family entertained at all times. When I avoid taking decisions in my life just to make the best one, my brother is quick in taking big decisions of his life. Extremely clear headed, Leo knows what they want and they never doubt their abilities. His extreme confidence sometimes intimated me even when I have been right in an argument with him. Leo are Lions and instead of just being an ambitious, courageous and dominant person, they are very affectionate, honest and emotional for their family. They are kind hearted in nature who spends money for their comfort, for their friends and for anyone who needed help. Leos are the ones who give away more tip to the waiters.
Last but not the least, whenever I see someone with a friendly smile with all their teeth’s visible, a good looking, fit individual, I assume that they are VIRGOS and that’s how they are. They take care of their looks; they are smart and sophisticated. These people are extremely practical and rational. It’s so easy for them to know what they should speak and what impact it would have on others. They understand people so easily and fast that they empathize with everyone without even being emotionally attached to them. Whenever I need a life related advice, I know whom do I have to connect. They have an analytical mind and are so good in giving good advices that you would simply have to agree to what they are saying. They are an amazing friend who would go out of their way to help. They are more mature than their age and can be called as good counsellors. Despite being a friend, they won’t mind criticizing you and telling you what’s wrong in you and after talking to them, you would also agree to them. These are the people whom you can easily ask this interview question, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” because they know it well what they want to accomplish and which path they need to follow for that.
Share your views about other sun signs in the comments section so that I get an idea about those I missed!
