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I m raw and unpolished and desire to stay the same.
You do things after a thought, after understanding what people expect from you and then you deliver. It doesn’t come naturally to you. You understand their expectations first, the expectations of your spouse, parents, children, your near ones, friends and relatives. Once you know then you move on doing that.
Sometimes, you forget behaving in that specific expected manner or doing that specific thing which was expected from you. However, the moment you remember it, you make it up for it.
I am a bit different than you, not bit but much different. I only think about myself and the way I feel. Accordingly I behave without considering or thinking about what others expect from me.
Where as I do think only for myself..the way i feel..they way i want to behave without considering what others expect from me. But it automatically becomes the same thing. It include their expectations on its own as others need the same thing that I want for them.
That’s how i connect with those whom I love. They are not any separate individuals for me, I consider them mine, my own part. For me doing what they want from me is the same as what I want to do for them. So i m not doing anything as a work just to please them. I am doing it for myself.
When for you, its a work that you need to remember, for me it’s a natural behaviour. That’s real me with more of a heart and not much of a mind like you, without feeling the burden of any expectation and being natural.